I like this statement, because it is actually a statement of truth, not of opinion.
It has taken me 49 years to stop looking for the things or people outside of myself who I thought were going to complete me. It took me being in a place of feeling desperate, alone and abandoned before I was ready to really start looking INSIDE me and not just finding out that I was ok, but actually falling in love with who I am. I can honestly say that now life looks totally different. Who I am is different, what I think, how I behave, my relationships. Because from this place of being grounded, we discover what was really true all along...and its the most beautiful and inspiring journey!
Perhaps the most essential thing for you to believe is that you are already enough, just as you are. NO MATTER WHAT. You are inherently enough.
Not once you hit the goal (the weight loss, the wellness, the relationship, the money) you’re after, but right now.
See how that feels to believe in your magnificence before you get the thing you think you need so you can feel enough.
It’s a quiet contentment, an “oh, there’s nothing for me to hustle after in order to feel worthy cause I’m already worthy. I am free to simply just enjoy my existence.”
Then the things you’re after actually come to you more easily cause you don’t NEED them to feel okay. You might want them, but there’s not a heavy attachment. Big difference.